Here's one I wrote about the awkwardness here:
For those who haven't experienced it,
there is nothing quite like the awkwardness that is trying to
communicate with someone who speaks a completely different language
than you. Add to that that the first time I heard Malagasy was in
Madagascar. So it has been difficult. There is a lot of gesturing,
laughter, and silence. Like charades with strangers. However, it is
great motivation to study. There is also an oft repeated phrase here,
“Embrace the awkwardness”. It is supposed to be weird and
difficult. If it's not you're doing something wrong. All of that is
part of the learning process. At least that's what I keep telling
myself.
Even know that I've been here long
enough to know a small amount of language every conversation is an
adventure. Assuming the person I am talking to speaks slowly enough
to understand, I am in constant fear they will use a word I haven't
learned yet. Which happens in 99% of my conversations. I carry a
notebook at all times so I can write down the new stuff or I'd never
remember it. Thankfully the Malagasy are a very patient and forgiving
people.
I am also more than a foot taller than
the average person here. All doorways must be ducked. I learned that
the hard way. Myself and another volunteer, who is actually an inch
taller than me, are known around town as “volontera lava” or the
“tall volunteers”. We're celebrities! There is definitely a lot
of staring but you get used to it. I like to stare back. It breaks
the tension. Being tall also makes using the kabone (toilet...sort
of) and ladosy (shower...sort of) an adventure. Thankfully a lot of
kabone time is in the squatting position because there is no standing
up in there. The ladosy was also a back breaker but they actually
raised the height for me. My host family is awesome. But that's the
next post. It should be said for the record that you don't have to be
an ogre like me to not fit places hear. Pretty much anyone 5'10”
and over has some struggles.
And here is my host family:
My host family is amazing. I have a
host mom, dad, and brother but my brother lives in Tana so it's like
I'm a host only child. I haven't actually met him yet but hopefully
he will be able to make it here soon. My host mom and dad tale great
care of me. I have never eaten so much in my life. And I used to be
300 lbs. Fun fact, the Malagasy consume the most rice (called vary
here) per capita of any one in the world at ½ a pound a day of
uncooked rice per person. They love their rice here. So, if anyone is
coming to visit, make sure to hold of on eating your rice.
Anyways...host family. They are great. I am their 6th host
child from Peace Corps so they have it down pat.
As I've gotten to know them and the
language better we've developed some recurring jokes. My host mom
loves sweet food and doesn't like spicy things so my host dad and I
are always jokingly trying to slip some sakay (crushed hot peppers)
on to her desert. It's a lot funnier to do than to read. By the way,
desert here is always fruit and we have it with every meal, even
breakfast. We laugh a lot together, mostly at me saying words wrong
or that mean the wrong thing.
They have also been very accommodating
in regards to my size. They are both around 5'3” so most of the
house just doesn't fit me. They did make the ladosy taller as I
mentioned last post. They did it completely on their own too. After I
had been here about a week my mom announced one day that they were
going to fix it and when I came home my dad, who is a carpenter, was
just finishing up. I think they thought I didn't use it much because
it was too small for me and not because of my general indifference to
showering and my not wanting to pour a bucket cold water over my head
every morning.
We have a ton of animals. Here we go: 2
dogs, 2 cats (one of which is on loan to another volunteer's family
to help them with their rat problem), a pig, 4 ducks, and 39
chickens. Yes, 39 chickens. About half of them are babies or young,
as are 2 of the ducks, one of the cats, and one of the dogs. It is
really fun to help round them all up at night. I feel like Rocky
chasing the chickens around. It's great agility work. Almost everyone
has at least one chicken and they roam freely during the day. And
everyone knows their chickens by sight. It's pretty amazing.
The house is 3 rooms. My room, their
room, and the kitchen. My room it actually quite big. There is enough
room for bed and a table and chair. The house is really a perfect
size. Except the doorways of course. We don't have electricity but
that is not a huge deal. We are in bed by about 8 and up around 430am
or so. Anything that needs to happen after dark is done by candle
light or with a flashlight. There is something fun about reading and
writing by candlelight. But it is a shame that so many people live
with out electricity which we consider to be a bare essential in the
US. To think of all the lost productive hours and the chance to use
them to improve one's life. And imagine not being able to refrigerate
food. The lack of electricity in the developing world is a huge issue
in keeping people and places down, although the problem is far
outside the scope of a Peace Corps volunteer's job description. Maybe
someday I can help with it.
The Malagasy are a wonderful people who
I love being around. I'm excited to spend the next 2 years working
with them. But I am really going to miss my host family and the
chickens.
And here's the food:
Malagasy love rice. Tena tia vary ny
olona Malagasy. Rice is eaten at almost every meal here. And a drink
called ranon'ampango is drank at every meal. Ranon'ampango is
basically rice water. After cooking a pot of rice you put water in
the pot with the rice that is stuck to the side and boil it. Then
serve hot. Now you have ranon'ampango.
My host family actually hasn't been
eating rice for breakfast most of the time. I'm not sure if that is
because they normally don't or if they have adjusted for the huge
American living with them. Instead we eat some form of fried bread or
pancakes every morning with honey and peanut butter. I'm not
complaining. So far I have avoided any really bad stomach issues
(knock on wood). Other than a few sporadic sprints to the kabone I
have been lucky. Others have not been. I know my time is coming so I
try not to laugh too hard when I hear the stories. Side note, when
living in Madagascar discussing bowel movements (among many other
things) with people who were strangers 2 months is very normal .
I really love the food here. I am a fan
of rice so that helps. There is also a great selection of fresh, in
season fruits and veggies available all the time. We have a dessert
of fresh fruit with every meal. Even breakfast. Maybe the only issue
I have had with the food is that I am eating so much of it. My host
mom is a great cook who also has some portion control issues. She
makes the amount of food you expect to feed 6+ people for the 3 of
us. And often it falls on me to eat as much as possible. If we can't
finish, which happens always, the cats, dog, and pig reap the spoils.
We've had an amazing assortment of
foods too. Even though we only eat meat a couple times a week we've
eaten: a whole chicken (including the feet and head), cow liver,
entire little fish (bones and all), and many parts of a pig to name a
few. That doesn't include the delicacies we tried on our tech trip
and there will be a longgggg post on the tech trip. I love it all but
it is not for everyone. I also participated in my first chicken
killing here. The first of many I expect. Again, definitely not for
everyone but I kind of liked it in a completing the cycle of life
kind of way.
So far so good for my stomach and
insides. No sudden issues or long term blockages. But, the longer I
am here the more adventurous I get so we shall see.
There is so much more that has happened here but I've been terrible at keeping up with it. Obviously the long post on tech trip didn't happen. I'm at my site now. It's called Ankazambo Atsimo. It is in the north central part of the island. The biggest city close to it is called Antsohihy. It's beautiful. There is an amazing mountain range surrounding the area. And the people at my site are the best. They are super into helping their village and making changes for the better. I am so excited to work with them. We are starting a garden next week on Wednesday or Thursday. I also am working with a blacksmith's co-op in the village. They want to expand to new markets and tighten up their supply lines.
The move to the new site was definitely hard and awesome at the same time. I am so excited to be here but I also miss my PCV friends. It's hard being away from everyone but it will be great to hear about everyone's sites when I can. I made some good friends over the last 10 weeks. Way more than I thought I would. I hadn't really thought I would become close with people but I have. And of course I miss everyone in the States. But it's so good to be here. I am so excited to be doing this.
Sounds like you are having a great time and are experiencing so many new and exciting things! Glad to hear it's all going well :)
ReplyDeletethat's so tight Noah... keep killing chickens, soak in the moments, take pictures!!!
ReplyDeleteroll tide
...now punch yourself in the stomach